To me, this book seemed to intentionally contain stereotypes on steroids. Through the gangster attitudes of her father, to the parental neglect, to the idea that America is the land of the rich, to the vast number of girlfriends, Indiana got me thinking about how our perceptions on these issues can sometimes be (to put it bluntly) childlike. The narrator’s descriptions and observations were so extreme they couldn’t help but come across as embellished and unreliable. In the age of mass media and extreme politics, I thought this book made a statement on how unreliable perceptions could be when classifying people and their position in society.
To start off, in a weird way, I thought I was reading a more modern version of Pedro Paramo. The idea that the narrator in Papi is chasing down a metaphorical ghost of a father without truly knowing him and instead relying on the perceptions of others to "discover him" or be connected to him was very similar to me. However, I found Papi to be more compelling to read since it was told from the perspective of a young girl (which was more relatable), it was somewhat more straightforward in narrative, and included more modern references.
The concept of masculinity was also on my mind while reading this novel. To have a father figure embody the stereotypes of the gangster and maucho man with flashy cars, lots of women, and an access of money, but neglect his children was an interesting scope on what machismo and fatherhood means and how it is evolving. Reading this as an adult is also interesting because never at any point did I think that the narrator thought that her father did anything wrong. Thinking back to how I was at eight and my attitude towards my father, I probably would have felt the same. It made me think about how non-judgemental children can be and it is often through environmental factors and learned experience through age that we learn to hold others accountable.
So much of the narrator’s perspective is also focused on the vast number of her father’s girlfriends. Perhaps this makes a statement on how she is searching for a maternal role model more than a paternal one, or this symbolizes the beginning of her questioning her father’s values over her own. She often also blames the actions or faults of her father on his girlfriends.
In conclusion, I really enjoyed reading this book. I also wanted to talk more about the stereotype of money and having the perception of vast wealth upon coming to America as this was also handled in a really interesting way throughout this book, however, I'll save it for when I chat with you all in class.
Question for the class: How have you noticed the theme of fatherhood evolve or change throughout the readings this semester? Considering this is one of the more modern readings on the list, how do you think it speaks to modern fatherhood and its expectations?